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1 ~~~g~ fx!ln~ ~ Xt3} 158 s75l VP) ~158 E. B. 1!, Madondo. 1. ~ I*ivumelwano noma 1z1nkonte1eka. lzirto'- Kukhona izipho ezidinea ukuthi uma umuntu aphiwe zona angazi 6uy1si ngah1uthoa njenga1ez1: izinkomo izitsha, izi~~ali, utshwala nokudla. Izipho lezi zenziwa ngesizathu noma ngizizathu ezithilo ezitangela loyo opha omunye amuphe, lokho amu~ha khoha. Izinyeke izipho zidinga uku6uy1swa, njenfokuth1, uma amadoda ama6111 e1amana noma engawandodanye, 6esekuthi enye yawo iphe enye inkomo yokusengwa kuswelekile ukuthi lenkomo uma ifa 16uy1selwe kumniniyo nco6a wa6emphe u61si lwayo hhayi yona, njalo noma emupha utshwala naye kusweleke amuphe futhi e6uy1sa lo6o naye a6uphuza njango6a kwanza a6antu a6ahlinzisa 2. nayo, uma kade naye oyohlinza komunye u6uya na~~ntshotsho 6ekakuth1 naye uma ehla61le arn6ize lona ahlinzisana naye ukuze naye azczintshontshela. Kukhona izipho umuntu azithola ngezenzo zakhe ezincomekayo ku6antu. Umuntu oyingwazi uvama kakhulu ukuthe athole izipho zo6uqhawe, ukuze na6anye 6<'m6one, kanti nomntwana olalela a6azali 6akhe uthola izinto ezinhle kakhulu ntenxa yezenzo zakhe. A6azal1 uku6opakalisa ukumtho kozela loyo mntwana, 6amupha amasimu okulima, 6amlo6olele 6ezama ukumkhombisa ukuthi a kwenzayo 6ayaku6onga. lzinto ezithengisayo:- Ziningana izinto ezithengisayo: njencezinko~o, izimbuzi, 1zimvu, 1z1nku kanye nokunye okuningi 3. umninikho aneahle athengise ngakho. Kuyenzeka kwesinye x is1khath1 ukuthi 1zinto lezi ezithengisayo zi6uy1selwe ndawonye, ukuze loyo ozithenga azikhathele loyo emendisayo. La6oke a6afuna izimpahla y16ona a6af~na lapho 6angahle 6az1thole khona izli1to lqzo a6azitunayo. Ukuzo ke umuntu loyo othengisayo uphatheke kuhle futhi ahlonipheke, uziveza yena ngasenkosini 161s1minika imvume yokuse6enza phakathi kwendawo yayo, yazise nesizwe sayo ngaloyomuntu. Umthencisi wenza izinto oziningi zenhlonipho nezokukhanga a6antu 6ahahele ukuzothenga kuyena, azi6eke izimpahla zakhe ft ngendlela athi engena nje umuntu a6e 6 ona 1 o kh 4o akutunayo, /nalokho..

2 s751 Kt3/t5s 4. nalok."!o akade enze:..cewazi ukuthi kukhona aku6one kuso6ala. LalJhoke asezi theneisa athende 6azi6one 6onk~ ~:<anye nor~lo6o lolo analo..3zikal,~a~ro zikal 7e, ukuthi zili!l an:i s o~.re ngeqoma nona nt:onyazi r!ooh ngoi~uphi olru~ e lokho aku:;e6enzisayo. Izint.:,ngiso azifan~ futhi ziy.::jshintsha njont;o6a e6on3 kudingeka fut;hi alinganise leyonto ayithengisa ngayo, ume izimvu ziyishum:i rnhlawu!"'lbe ku6e amaseka ama.hlann o:mnbila, noma izimvu ezi!rishumi ku6e!'inkomo. :\ku:vjlo zipho ez1.neahj.e zenzh~e a6~ thengi kut1the.rl[is1, kodwake u:nthengis:i yona angnhle azenze izipho ku6uthengi 6ald1'9, onzela ukuge.donr.a noku6a6onga ncokuthenga 5. kwa6o, a6anike amaswidi noma nernpahla nje; oqotho ums 6ethenge kakhu DOiL1a. Etu~ niko ichwanf) lemva wna 6ethengo izjnivu. Kuyavama ul{uthi umthonei lona ~~neagi mhjandla okuyithenga into leyo u; 7 idill H, a6esecela ukuthi an1km~ ~ ona ngesikwaletu. u!jltho.r..t;1s1 nomthenti 6afune ofc:.t.lu:tzi 6&6o uma se6evuruelene 6acha.zelane Jlharnbi kwa6o isimo agavumelana ngaso. Kuyavamaka ukwen~oka ukuthi lone.:~, omthon 1Si afune 1simiselelo, lonake umthenci aldlontbe izinkorr.o noma amisalele layo mp&hla. ugelo6olo lomntanukhe wentombazano. umthenei engakazithathi se~ifa Uma izinto lezi zithangisa kodwa zifela umtheneisi wazo, noma 6. nea6e azife kodwa zilimala. Uma inkorto noma yiyiphi enye impahla 1thene1sa kodwa umniniyo angaylthathi, loyo oseyitheneile, a usenolru6iza inzalo yayo ngo6a aneqiniso lokuthi isina~ro, khuke kud1nceka u6ufakazi o6anele ukuthi nempela layompahla isinenzglo. ill. h'll:epb;.ka kvv~sivumelvmno, kalo Isivune.l'?Jar:.o sisenokyi9}::hul :~a noma s!nga~afezek1 non:a sesifezekil~) kouwu :injongo yaso idinla U1mf ~Z'..J& njalo futh:.. loyo olimalayo ~okne;;1phuke okuyizimfanolo zekl~~~ k,;esivumelwnno akl:okhel\ve loko njengo6s. zazifanale zigenga141.o ncesi vumelwano, kodwii uo& ongenel1swa usenokwala, njenro6a k i;esinya 7. isil"jlathi kuyenzek& ur..tntu athathe 1nl.:r.6i noma inkomokaz:j. kodwa e6eseyi6uyisa Ilionkonyane nolllt.t nt:;f.&leyo ezacile, e6onakali izodlulu nocusika. Lesikwelotu sise nokukhokhwa ngokuhleshulwa /size saneli

3 8. s75l size saneli. Uma kodwa ehluleka ukukhokha, kusekokwenzeka ukuthi leyompahla ayithathayo 16uyiswe ngokuthi amangale enkosini, inkosi 161sithuma izinceku zayo ziyoshaya okulingana naleyompahla nga~hezulu ku6ekhona eyayo inkosi yezindleko zecala lelo. Uma a6a cniselele k kuthathwa lokho a6em1selele ngakho, noma yona leyompahla uma isekhona ilandwe, i6uyiselwe kumniniyo futhi. Ukwe6oleka noma ukwe6olek1sa& Ziningi izinto ezingahle ze6olekwe ngumtmtu komunye, nazi ezinye zazo: UDUthonto, induku, insimu, nengane, nokunye okuninci kodwa izinto ezidliwayo azivamile ukwe6olekwa njengo Mbila, ama6ele ibontshisi notshwala. Lezike zona ziyenanwa z1nga6olokwa, futhi z16uyiswe ncesilinganiso leso * oza6e ze:uanwe ll[&.so ngesikhath: leso agavtllllelene neaso az16uyise. Uma umuntu enane iqoma ligcwele ummbile naye kudingoka ali6uyise ligcwele wona ummbila njongo6a kwakunjalo nakuyana. Uma umuntu e6oleka izinka61 uku6a ziyomlimela, l:.uhle kuthi lapho ziziqedile ukulima a6ese61z& umninizo amuphe ntohwala noma lokho a6avumelene 9. ngakho noma yimbuzi njango6a kuvama a nkwenzeka. Izinyeke izinto z1ye6olekwa nje zinga6uyi nalutho njez~alezi: izinto zoku6aza,,umkho6a noma umhebe, imbazo, isando, noma lezo zokulima njengamageja, 1khu6a kanye nez1khal1 zokulwa umkhonto, ihawu, induku nokunye okuningi, noma nga6e zisetshenziswe kangaka nani akuvamile uku6a kudingeke zikhokhelwe ngaloko kuse6inza kwazo. Z1senoku6a z16akuloyo oze6olek11e kuze kuphele isikhatti leso a6a6es1nqumilo noma kuze kuphele umse6enz1 loyo a6ezifunele wona. Umake kwenzeka izimpahla lezo zilamala noma zilahleke, kusweleke ukuthi loyo oze6olekileyo am ayozi61ka masinyana 10. kumninizo. lnkomoke yona isenokuthi idliwe uma ifile um~ umniniyo ekude kodwa uma eseduze kulindelwe izwe lakhe uma ese61kelwe, noma kuthunyelwe uhlaneothi lwayo kanya nesikhumoa kumniniyo: NJonbo6a kwenzeka enkomeni ka Mathunjana nkomo eya61hlala ~~a.mgodi Ncwana. Kwathi lapho inkowo lena 1s1f~ umgod1 wayo61kela uhlathunjana, ukuthi inkomo yaldle ifile, umathunjana we6esesuka na6antwana 6akwakhe, 6aya khona ' /Mgodi... 3

4 s75l /(13/158 Mgod1 1 watha6atha uhlangathi lwayo lonke kanye nesikhuffiba, nasenyameni yanga:phakathi wayahlula pha:tathi. Uma futhi 11. impahla leyo izela ukuthi yanda umniniyo kuhle atshel~e a6esezoyishaya uphawulwakho, ukuze 6anga xa6an1, zot~e eziy~z~lo lezimpahla zidinga ukuthi zi6uyiswe, kodwa uma impahla leyo ita kuswelekile nje ukuthi umnin1)o a6ikelwe kodwa 1nga6uyiswa ngaphandle kokuthi ife ngendlela enganambitheki, e6anga ukusola uku!a IDvayo kungathithi kungokwesi6omu, laphoke kuswelekile ayivuse ngenye ya.khe, eyivusel~ im~ahla umniniyo. Kuzo zonke 1z1vumelwano eziqondene nezinkomo noma nenye nje kudin&eka, ofakazi a6anele uxasekwakh1wa isivumelwano 12. noma sesi setshenziswa futhi, ukuze kunfa61 6ikho ukuxa6ana. Izimpahla lezi zisenoku6olekelwa ukulo6ola, zi6uyiswe ngendlela leyo a6avumelene ngayo noma lona o6olekayo amiselele isivumelwano ngodadewa6o omkhulu, ukuthi ilo6olo lakho liyokhokha lezinkomo. Izinkomoke lezi zelo6olo zi6uyiswa zinjengalokhu zathathwa azandi kodwa uma kukhona u6ufakazi o6anele ukuthi sezandile z16uyiswe kanye nenzalo yazo, kodwa lokho ku6uya kwenzalo kudinga uku6a kwaziwe ngesikhathi kwakhiv~a Izwe noma 1nhla6athi: ngesidingo esikhona kula6o a6ay16olekayo. isivurr.elwano. Inhla6athike nayo futhi iye6olekisa Inhla6athi i6olekwa 13. yila6o a6ayizihlo6o nomnuniyo, a6angane 6akhe kanye nezihambi ezijwayele kwakhe. Akukho nkokhelo edior.ekayo ~ku6a ikhokhwe yi6ona o6oleke inhlacathi, kodwa angaliyisa nje iqoma lombila eyo6onga. Inhla6ath1 1senokwe6olekwa unyaka noma ngaphezulu njento6a 6evume1ene. Uma ke umniniyo esetuna i6uye umnika unyaka lona oy16olekile uku6a alungele ukuyiyeka. Amakhosikazi noma a6esifazana a6analo ilunce loku 6olekisa ll enhla6athi 6engatho1anga imvume yendoda ya6o, kanti nawo amadoda akukuhle 14. uku6a e6o1ekiso D anh1a6ath1 et~akhulumanga na6atazi 6awo, kodwa I wona aneluntelo ~okuyi6olekisa 1nr~a6ath1 ngaphandle kwa6afaz1 6awo. Inltosi ay in-'110 ilungelo lokuphoqa umuntu uku6a e6oleke omunye inhla6ath1 yakhe kodwa 1senoku6onisana naye kahle imcelo uku6a am6oieke DLazizathu nayo e6onayo ukuthi lona z1mmiseka61. /Imali

5 s751 Xt3/t5 s Imali, amageja nezinqola nakho kuye6olekwa omunya ozidingayo, kodwa akuvamisile ukuthi ku6uyiswe inzalo yazo nxa kade 5 zise6enza. Ukuse6enzas lzinblo6o zokuse6enza zinintana njed o6a kufanele izin~~nco zalokho kuse6enza. Okunye ukuse6enza kadinga uuvuzo 15. okunye akuwudingi. Imise6enz1 evama ukudinga umvuzo yilena. Ukwelapha umuntu, ukulima ulirnele omunye umuntu, ukuhlahla umuntu ingozi neminye amininti, njengokwakha izindlu, ukwelusa izinkomo. Uma u~untu kade ahl1a indlu unikwa izimbuzi ezine noma ac y1kuph1 okunye a6avumelen1 Ilf.Skho naloyo amakhelayo. Umelusi wezinkomo uhola inko~o ekupheleni konyaka kanti ruthi naye lena olimilo unikwa imbuzi no~ izimbozi ezilincene no=5e6enz1 loyo 16. wak~e awenzileyo noku6ukeka kwawc. Zonke lezivumelwano zidinta uku6a zenziwo kukhona ofakazi 6azozomb111 izinhlangothi. IzithunJwa zakwa ru~osi zitbola umfangolweni noma isihlanu ntalokho e6ez1kuhambele noma ngecala. Izinyanga zona zifuna ngxa noma imvulasikwama kuqala ngaphambili koku6a zikhiphe umuthi. Ugxa lolu upondo nomfagolweni. 6ese kuthi lapho umuntu esesindile 161sifuna inkoruo. LKubula noma ukuhlola akufane tuthi nezimali zaaho azifani kodwa iz~nuse lishe ukuthi zonke zi6iza umfagolwani kanye nala6a a6ashaya ama amathambo. A6aloz1 6ona 6akhishelwa upondo uma umuntu eyokuzwa 17. ku6ona izinda6a zakhe. Knnti noma yiyifhi inyanga uma 1zo6ethela emuzini eyelapha kuwona noma qha 16iza inkomo ngaloko ifune nemvu emnyuma engena6ala ndawo. Lemvuke iyayithwala ihamba nayo inyama yayo uma isiqedile uku6ethela, ise6enze ngamafutha ayo. kuj:hela, kanjalo noma izoaeqa umfazi imvulasikhwama ayisali kanye nenkomo. ujimendo ne Pilo yawo {18) "Married li!e".a Uma insizwa isigcagcile nentombi leyo, uyise wentombi, im61za ngokuthi uyise noma umukhwe wayo, 6esekuth1 unina x«kt wentombi a6e ~t:unina noma ngolruthi umkhwekazi wayo. A6ettowa nodadewa6o 6ayo intombi leyo ku6e nga6alamu 6ayo, 6esekutr 1z1hlo6o zentombi zi6g x yizihlo6o zayo ruthi nayo insiz /16ahlon1phe

6 s751 16ahloniphe noma yenze okuthile ku6ona ukukhombisa u6uhlo6o ose6udalek11e, na6oke 6ay1hlon1phe. U6uhlo6o o6u6akhona phakathi kuko Ylo6okazi kanye noyise wendoda yakha 6udinga uku6a umlo6okazi angangeni endlini lapho kukh~na uyise, angavum1 futhi 6ahlanga6azane noma ngamehlo, angakhulumi naya futhi. Kodwa ke unina wendoda uyakhuluma nomlo6okaz1 wakwakhe, kodwa kudi~ eka phansi futhi agu1e ncumadolo adf eni. umlo6okazi akhulumele Lapho ekhulumc nomfowa6o futhi kudingoka akhombiso inhlonipho enkulu angambeki aguqe ntauw.dolo ecwayile futhi emahlombe. 19. Ngesikhathi umlo6okazi anomkamfowa6o kanye nodadewa6o 6omyen1 wal'jle usuke engokhululekilo naye, ezintvwni szinii"'.gi zcnhlonipho noma phela ktl. nt:asvig-lekilo akhohlwe ukuthi usent:umakoti kodv'ja naye ukathole ithu6a lolruphefumula nokwenama. Umlo6okazi lona kud 1.nt. ek:~ ahloni_i: he 6onke a6antu, 6ozalo na6ayiz1hlo6o zalaj. llb kowukho, akhothame uma ekhuluma ns.6o, o.hlonij:he narr.agarrta a6ofu t.hi ang a6a6izi na6o f'uthi 6angam6izi nge ama lakhe 6ath1 nje masi6ani6an:t njengokuthi uma umlo6okazi lo6c kunrows.ka Thusi kuthiwa "Mathusi"noma ngegama likanjise njell[okuthi uma uyj.seku ngulusi6a kuthi A'e ".Malus16a.". Indoda nenkosikazi: lndoda kuyjs16orho sayo ukv6a iphathe kahle umkapo, kodwa ikhombise umehluko kunalapho eseyintombi \ 20. njengo6a esakwesinyo isimo. Phakathi kwenrllu yeyo 1ndoda inelunge.:b lokumisa imithetho efuna kweniiwe noku6a kungenziwa. Kuyi si6opho sayo indoda uku6a ivikelo umkayo nokuthwala 6onke u6unzima 6omkayo. Inkosikazi kx kuyimfanelo paj.uneolo layo ukugcina 1nhlon1pho yayo endodeni yayo kanye nokwenza lokho indoda efuno kwcnziwe, kapha.ruthi ingumeluleki nomsizi wendoda yayo phakathi kwendlu yayo. ~~yiph1 indoda yayo ukudln nges1kh~thi lese esifaneleyo. Kuswelekila 6ahlon1phano umn inkosikazi 161zwa yindo-:!ft ~rayo isa6cle ngesi6ongo sayo indoda: njengalokhu okwen~eka lapho unkantolo!a-kala etha6athe unto6okaz1 wakwa /Mvelalase

7 s751 /(13/158 ntvalalase. Laphoke esam61za wayeth1 "we MalliVelase a6esethi yena 21. "Nkalan. Ngelinye ilanga unkanto1o waze wahla6a imbuzi ngo6a kwathi lapho em61zayo wasa6ela ngezwa lokuzitho6a okukhula, elamthokozisa.. umamvelase lena wa6ewumlo6okazi ohloniphnyo impel~ engazi6izi izinto eziningi njengoh~thi usigwayi wayemhlonipha ngokuthi uchazano ngo6a phela usigwayi lena u wa6engu.malume womyen1 wakhe. Noyise womygni wakhe ukhulumi mpi ehlonipha ngokuthi imp1 athi yihhlaselo, konka loku kwamnika udumo nesasasa ku6o 6onke a6asakhaya nez1hlo6o. ' Kuyimtanalo futhi kungumisa umuz1 kahla ukuthi nayo indoda uma kwd1ona efuna ukukwen~a phakathi nomuzi imazise umfoz1 wa.yo uma 1zokwenzs into enkulu phs.l:e.thi komuzi. 22, Kuysnzeka ngesinye is1khuth1 uku:hi ink.osikazi nayo ibene mpahla ekhaya mhlawumbe iyiphiv1o ku6o noma iphiwe iyona 1ndoda yayo, kanye nezitsha nendlu yayo futhi inkosikazi ya:yj1iwe. nen.kosikaz1 Ganelungelo lokuhlangana ngoko mkhu6a wemvelo Indoda ngaz1khath1 zase6usuku, kodwa umfazi usenckwala ngezizathu zangasese uma kude eseth1ntshin1, akasiyo imfanelo ukuthi indoda i6esimshaya um.fazi wayc nealokho. Um.faziko umelwe ukusinda, indlu yakhe ashayele iz161, apheke, ageze.ne~itsha futhi, alime, afulele 1ndlu yalme yonke iminyaka ukuze 1nganeth1, ahambe ayofula futhi emasimini, ageze izingu6o. Uma 6ahlulaka 23, ukufeza lezizinto phakathi komuzi indoda nomfazi 6agcina ngoku xa6ana, 6angezwan1 futh1. 7 Norouzi wa6o avmjy.jaye leki. Nezinhlanhla za6o z1sha6alale ngo6a amadlozi athj uma eze afice kuku6i phakath1 komuzi. Uma inkosikaz1 ine;atholi 6antwana iyiswa noma kn6tzwa inytmea izoyieeqa, nja1o noma ingayitholi inzalo eyanela noma futhi ifalwa a6antwana njengo6a k Jenze kaku.mandlovu v1akwa Dhlamini lapho engathola mntwana, wayiswa enyangeni enyukhasela, wahlala khona unyaka ege1wa ekuqaleni.ko. yiyo inyance qkhaya. 24. a6antwana a6athathu. Wesi6ili wa6uyiselwa Emuva kwalokhu waphumelela ukuthola umkhu6ana la;rho esahlulekile ukugeqa umtazi walrne waze ~ wathatha owes16111 naye wazala Umfana wamunye /nentombazana...

8 s751 nentombaza.ne kwa6a kuphela. Kt3/t5 s Kwesinyo isikhsth1 kuyenzel{a ukuthi inzalo inea6i6ikbo ngasendodeni, lokhuko, kuyinto elt~khuni nayo indoda E iyelashwa kwesinye isikhathi ize iphumelele i6athole a6antt:ana, kodwa uma 1nga6atholi umuzi J:Z: uyahlungana kodwa ucele omunye wa6afowa6o amzalela njengo6a nakhuyena er~enanzalo. Kodwa umu kuyinko~1kazi engazali indoda nayo 1yancengwa uku6a ithathe yena wakwa6o kamfazi wayo azomzalela, nokho lokhu 25. akavamile ngo6a amadoda a.funa licuthatha loyomuntu amthandayo nawo, ur.:a ke ivun:a ikhokt..o uhha.t'u welo6olo laloyo wokuqala. Yena ke loda othathwe ngoca ezovusa inclu kadade wa6o u6angowalapho kwadade wa6o na6anta6akho 6a6ayi z1ndla11fa lakwadade won1na. Indoda uma iphingili lyahlawuli.swa yiloyo ephinge nomkhakhe n[en.korr:o, nayofuthi 1nkos1kaz1 lcyo oph1ngo nayo uyahlawuliswa ngenkomo, nayo futti 1l&nde inkomo kugo yokuzonguza umuz1 m nomyeni wayo. Ku~ranzaka ukuthi tl'ilf&zi iutshaye j ndoda yakhe ng;okuphi noma. futhi inmhlukani.s9le. Naloy'c aphinge n~:~ya uma eficiwe uyasha.ywa noma kwesinya is1..hzith1 okuvamile ukuthi ' 26. 6amshaya aze ate n~enxa yokuthukuthela. Inkosike nayo futhi imudle inkomc loyomuntu ophinga nom.fazi womunye urrluntu. U6ufaz1 6okuphirl a 6unez1hhlo6o ez:j.n1.ngi' KY\iesinya!.sj_t<..hathi incoda 16enjwa oqotsheni futh:i. ku6eno6f..!az1 o6ugcwalo ukuthi 6a6enzani. Kuyenze kake kwesinye isikhathi ukuth1 umuntu lo~: o anga6anjwe kodwa atholakale ngokufaniswa kwenguna. Ukuphinga lokhu kunezindawo lapho urnthetho u~hoqekayo uku6a u~uffiela umfazi uma ophingile ngulezizathu mhlavmmbe indoda syinaso isidoda es1q1n11eyo noma mhlawumbe ihambe 1sikhath1 eside inge:ililangani nonkosikaz:l. wayo ngokwemvelo, noma futhi yala ukuhlanran& nomfaz1 loyo wayo njengo6a ku Luncuza Si6iya lapho 27. inkosi u11akhasana yaze yathumala 1zinduna zayo uku6a kuthi njalo i6usuku ziyogada larha ekhaya ngo6a kuthifla indoda kunele kufike isikhathi sokulalo i~hume iye kwa6o ivuke ekusoni i6ayele kwayo. l.zin~~m~ zae;ada isonto 1onlm zimcona njalo ephuma sekulalwa eseya h--wa6o, neomsombulul::o asathi uyakwakhe zambamba zamyisa enkosini, kwavela o6ala u6ufakaz1 o6u6angela umkakhe /aphinge

9 s751 aphin e. t13}158 Inkosi yamudla inkomo yamiwayisa tuthi ukuthi angakuph1nd1. Izinto ezivama ukuxa6an1sa amadoda na6afazi yizingane notshwala, nokudla, lapho kundoda ize 1mohaye umfazi ngo6a naye phela unenkani yakhe akathandi ukuvunyiswa, kwesinye 28. isikhathi 1ndoda iyafika ekhaya x ifice ukudla kungekho, 6axa6aneke khona lapho aze ashaywe umfazi. Umfazi ke usenoku61ka lokhu kuynumzane noma a6aleke njengo6a kuvama ukwenzeka. Uma kwenzeka indoda imshaya kanti kukhona a6anye a6antu lapha ekhaya 6ayalamula, nanxa kuyenzeka ukuthi uma kunga6afowa6o 6omfazi 6ay1shaye nayo indoda lena 6elakelele udadewa6o. Uma indoda ixa6ene nomkayo ku61zwa umuzi wonke yiloyo omkhulu noma ofanele ukuwuqoqa a6eselu6eka kuwona nda6a lolo, umuzi ke wona u6ususola loyo owonile. Loyoke omkhulu kuna6o okungukuthi oyi 29. nhloko yomuzi noma omdala a6esemthethisa loyo owomileyo am amhlawulise uma e6ona kufanele, uma kuyi nkosikazi iyilande ku6o leyompahla yehlawulo umu kuyindoda ihlatshwe idliwe wumuzi yonke. Kuye nzaka ukuthi kwesinye 1s1khath1 6angeneliswa y1sinqumo somuzi 6al1dlulise icala lelo lize lifiko enkantolo, nokho lokhu akuvamile ukwenzeka. Isithembu: Kakusiyo into evam1s1le ukwenzeka ukuthi a6afaz1 6esithembu 6athathwe ndawonye noma khayeni linye, xm 1mvama 6athathwa 1z1ndawo ezahlukeneyo njengokuqonywa kwayo insizwa kodwa kuyenzeka nakho ukuthi 6athathwa ndawonye njengo6a 30. kwanza unkelani Ngu6ana, wathatha amadodakazi ama6111 kanungu Mwelusi, kodwa ahlukene ngezindlu, waphinda futhi wathatha amadoda kazi ama6111 ka Nokuhlwa Zuma encane nenkulu elamana Ndlininye, kwa6a yiloyo W&mn en1sa kwaloyo ongesiso 1sihlo6o sakhe. A6afaz1 a6akhulu 6akhe 6a6a6a6111 indlunkulu nekhohlwa la6a a6a6111 6angeniswa kulezindlu. Umahlukho nesimo sa6o a6afaz1 senziwa ukugana kwa6o njengokulandelana njenganalapba kunkeleni inkosi kwaku ngu Manunga omdala ikhohlwa kungu Mazuma omkhulu, umanungu omncane wangeniswa kwamazuma omkhulu, 31. uma.zuma omncane wangeniswa kwamanungu omkhulu. Noma nga6e yindodakazi yenkosi nayo i6ancane uma yagana kamuva njengo6a /kwenzeka

10 Kta/tss kwenzeka lapho umashungu kanyiniyezwe egana udhlothovu wakwa Mkhize eseganiswe umanzila kanti yena uyindodakazi yenkosi kodwa nokho wa6a yikhohlwa, kwesinye isikhathi indoda ngokumthanda nje omnnye umfazi iyamenza a6emkhulu, kodwa loko kudala ukuxa6ana ku6antwana 6ayo, se6e6anga ipa, Na6oke oyise 6alawo mantombazane agana esithenjini 6ayakulwela ukuthi umkhwenyana wa6o azimise ngo6umo zonke izindlu, ukuze kunqadaleki Ukuxa6ana ezinqaneni. 32. Lokhu kwenziwa umntwana unomangozololo kahomoyi inkosi, wathatha umfazi omncane wathi uyena omkhulu, nokha alusukanga uthuthuva esekhona waze wafa, esetile lwasuka nokho indodana leyo eyazalwa unkosi omncane owa6ekwa ngokuthandwa, yazehlukanisa yona nefa lelo yalinika unkosana. Kuyinto enkulu uku6a umfazi wokuqala noma uku6a yinkosikazi. Kodwa kuyinto engahle uku6a sesithenjini, njengo6a 6onke 6aya 6ejah111 ukuthi indoda ithande 6ona neumunye, Kuyavama ukuthi indoda ikhuthazwe uku6a iganwe a6antwana a6a6il1 6ephuma emzini owodwa, ukuze kuthi omunye uma evelelwa 33. yingozi nvma engatholi 6antwana amvusele a6antwana, kanti futhi noma egula nyamsiza lokhu engujiizimba wakbe..amakhosikazi lawa amaninei aphangelana ngayo indoda uma eyipha ukudla eqondene nokudluliselana kuyona ukuze leyo eyenza ukudla okumndandi masinyane ithandwe yendoda. Ukudla kuyiswa endlini lapho ikhona nsukuzonke. Amadodake nawo awetani enye inendlu yayo lapho kuyiswa khona enye 1nga61n~jO kuyisw~ kwaloyo ekwakhe ukudla lndodake lena yesithembu ishentsha 1z1khath1 ihambe iphuma intena ku6o6onke a6afaz1 6ayo, kodwa yenze izikhathi zifane ingadlulisi ngalutho ngo6a lokho kunga6axa6anisa a6afaz A6afaz1 6es1thembu 6asweleke 6ahlon1phane futh1 6athandane ukuze indoda i6athanda nayo 1ngakhethi. Kodwa uma 6exa6ana indoda isuke ithande omunye wa6o lokoke 6ese kudala u6uthakath1 nokur~ezwani okukhulu phakathi komuzi. Kutanale a6afazi 6es1thembu 6asizane kukhokonke a6akwanzayo, njengokuthi uma omunya egula, la6a a6anye 6ams1ze 6amgayele, 6aphe nezingano zakhe ukudla 6ahlangana, 6amhlakulele nansimu yakhe, 6amfulelele /0 /nendlu

11 8'751. nendlu. Kt3/t5 s A6afaz1 6es1thembu kungemkhu6a wa6o uku6a nomhavlu, ngezinto a6az16ona komunye 6engena zo6ona noma futhi ezala kanti 35. 6ona a6anayo inzalo, imuva kwalokhu kulandela u6uthakath1 o6ukhulu, nendoda futhi idle ukudla okungathokazi siyo ngo6a se6ey1phoma nayo 6eth1 a61male loyo a6amfela umona. 1s1kh~th1 Kwesinye umona lona ndalwa yimpahla yakulayonala esuke yande mhlawumbo ize 1dldle 1z1ndlu ezinkulu. Imr.ahla lena phela yezindlu iyehlukaniswa, njenga6afaz1 la6o indoda ena6o. A6afaz1 a6eawanayo na6athandanayo 6adla x ndawonye, 6ehlulelane noma yikuphi ukudla noma kukuncane futhi 6abekalane izingane ngokungathithi yiloyo naloyo ngezahl1e 36. zonke. Umuntu oy1s1hamb1 angeke awu6one umehluko ukuthi lezi Obezalo. Lokhuke kwa6onakula kahle ku Mantombala owa6egane indodana encane kamso61 ka Homoyi inkosi lapho ephethe ingana yomfowa6o omkhulu untsakavu, a6antu 6a6eth1 eyakhe yamaz16ulo ngo6a akazange awuvumole umehluko phakathe kwezingane, ~nathi nayo indoda yayifundisa nasesikoleni lengane, cishe ukuthi yazidlula ezayo zonke. Ngokwenzenjalo nayo ingane ayi:ance ikuzwe ukunea6i nanina, yaze yakhula yagcagca. ENDS. s I!J7

1 si esinye ieizwe eso.sizimele ngckwaso. ieiwabiza ajtihbuthe yase i tr ukuthele inkoai ngoba. iii:ueize ezingozini, r.ase zandleni zika.

1 s784 {lt-1} \ \ bj 1 si esinye ieizwe eso.sizimele ngckwaso. Sasekhelene mlaqa.di, ayebusv:a u.jube indoda.na ka5ilwa.ne, ka.;..j ila kru~e.otoma ~EJinye icizwe aeaea.krelcne nalaoo ba.l.v:a. a?:iya